This question is one that I know many are curious about…so it must be answered. Hold onto your hats, folks, because here it comes:
What do you do when someone gets a boner as you are giving them a massage?
My quick answer is this: nothing.
I’ve never had a client do this, but if one seemed to be uncomfortable or fidgety — or even showing signs of sexual arousal — I would check in with my client to make sure that they were feeling comfortable by asking them in a very subtle, gentle way if they wanted me to change anything about the massage experience. I might also make sure I was focusing my massage at the head or feet to draw attention away from the pelvic region, if it seemed that the client was embarrassed. I have never had anyone make an advance at me during a massage (thank goodness!), only over the phone (and that’s another story altogether!).
Honestly, the tent appears sometimes, I note it, and continue with my massage.
So here’s the formula:
Benign boner + relaxed and comfortable client = just keep on keepin’ on.
Whew! Now that’s some food for thought for your evening!
with blooming acceptance,